Why it’s normal – and why or how you don’t have to believe every thought you have. No greeting. No “thank you”. No feedback. Just a short email in response to a piece of work I had put real thought and care into. Almost immediately, my mind filled the gap. I haven’t done a good job. I’ve missed the mark. This reflects badly on me. Nothing like that had been said. And yet, the conclusion felt instant and real. This is often how taking things personally starts – not with facts,